There’s a quiet, timeless wisdom woven throughout the book of Ecclesiastes—one that speaks deeply to the blessing and goodness of friendship, companionship, and relationships. It reminds us that we were never meant to walk alone.
“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.”
—Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
We were authored for connection, for community. And nowhere is that more evident than in the journey of building a coaching practice.
This path we’ve chosen—saying yes to God’s purpose, stepping into the call to serve and lead others—is not one of certainty or ease. It takes us out of our comfort zones and into uncharted waters, far from the safety of familiar shores.
So, the question becomes: Who is with you on the journey?
We all need people. Not just casual acquaintances, but those who will:
- Speak life into us and over us
- Offer encouragement when doubt creeps in
- Celebrate the small (and big) wins
- Gently offer a new perspective when needed
- Sit with us in silence
- Remind us of God’s truths
- Pray with us and for us
And just as importantly, we are called to be those people for others.
Who are you blessing with your presence, support, and friendship?
Coaching is not meant to be a solitary calling. It flourishes in fellowship. And while there are many kinds of relationships—mentors, peers, co-laborers, friends—the key is this: be intentional.
We don’t stumble into deep relationships by accident. We cultivate them—slowly, intentionally, prayerfully. And often, like so much in life, opportunity flows through the strength of our network. Not as a transactional approach, but as a natural outflow of goodness sowed and goodness reaped.
We reflect the image of God not through manipulation or using people, but by walking in the joy and authenticity of true connection.
So here are three invitations for you to reflect on this week as you walk in your calling as a coach:
- What does it look like to cultivate intentional community in this season?
- How can you bless and encourage another coach this week?
- What kind of team do you need around you to faithfully run your race?
As you consider these prompts, may you be encouraged: you are not alone. And the journey is so much richer, fuller, and more fruitful when we walk together. CCNI is a network of Christian coaches saying yes to God’s purposes for their coaching and cheering one another onward!
